Closure ✨

Heyy I'm so happy that at a handful of people are curious of my blog and appreciative about it.

If atleast one person who reads them can find closure in them, that is my biggest win ever.

Today I'm talking about closure.

Aren't we all tirelessly searching for it daily?

I mean it's so easy to get hurt,

or hurt someone, in today's world.

It could be a glance, or a missed greeting.

Could be a slip of tongue 

or a deliberate disparaging comment.

But there will always be something or someone 

That would definitely help you get out of it.

If I remember correctly, it was DW sir who said,

That it's a huge mistake to expect closure 

From the same person that hurt you.

The cure doesn't always lie in the poison.

It is all around you.

It's in the people that care about you,

It's in the things that you love to do,

It's in places that help you liberate yourself 

from your own self loathing and insecurities.

(It could also be in Ragi Brownies with milk chocolate toppings. 🥹😭)

Closure comes when you let go of the grudge.

The fact that they are also humans.

Us, all of us, equally stupid, equally vulnerable.

He also enlightened me with the thought that

In a way, us and our offender are congruent.

We are evenly prone to hurting someone (knowingly or unknowingly) as our offender.

But life doesn't have to be a 

clutter of blurred decree,

I know we are all hypocrites 

some way or the other.

And that's okay because we're always 

susceptible to change 

But there's also some parts that literally refuses to leave us, no matter how much we try.

Just like my anger. 

It also comes from a place of 

insecurity and vulnerability.

Do you know why?

Fear.

Fear of being boring,

Fear of losing the attention,

The apprehension of being lonely.

But somehow, the people around me 

are helping me out of it.

"Appreciation" "Acknowledgement" "Acceptance"

The three driving forces that keeps me going.

Yesterday it was Kitty, 

Today SR Sir.

Day before, Minny,

Before that, Adhyechi.

Oh my God all these people..

They keep me Alive,

I hope I do the same for them.

I hope I can be a better person.

For me, for them

Find closure in eachother.

The world can be hectic 

But we help eachother get through 

Every echoes of it.

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